This is why you need to pay attention in naming your children.
So this pain is disgusting. Everyday I wake up and it’s so much worse. I feel like if I’m like this just half way through, that I’ll be one of those ladies that needs crutches or a wheelchair later down the line.
My midwife gave me the physiotherapy number and it’s self referral. The earliest they could get me in is April. The midwife told me they would give me tips and coping techniques on the phone until they could see me. But they’re saying they can’t tell me anything on the phone, I just have to wait til April or go to A&E.
Why the fuck would I go to A&E? I can barely walk as it is. I’ll wait there for hours to be told they can’t do anything and I need physio.
I’m so pissed off. This pain is getting unbearable. And to top it off my sides are killing me today, mainly my right side.
If I cough or sneeze or move a certain way it feels like my insides are rupturing. When I lay down or sit up it hurts too much.
I love this baby so much and I know I’m blessed. But this pain is too much right now. She keeps kicking and I can’t even enjoy it because I feel like my pelvis is shattering into a million pieces.
I knew spd was painful but I didn’t realise how painful. I don’t know how ill cope if it continues to get worse :/
Seriously fed up.
This pain is unreal. I’m sick of waking up in agony. to top it off this morning when I woke up, my whole right side is killing me. Feels like a pulled muscle but I know it’s not.
So much pain. And no one seems to understand…
Little melon has been so active today, I love it!
She’s been kicking the crap out of me since this morning. They’re getting harder too, and she did one so hard I’m sure you’d be able to see my tummy move!
I hope this continues, I love feeling her all day.
lucas bit my ass and this truly terrifying thing happened
Once again people, sorry to bother you all with this again.
In 2010 I gave birth to a stillborn baby girl, she was born at 20weeks 5days gestation and only weighed a tiny 0.30grams. She was the length of our hand making her far too small to be put in any crib available. She was given to us in a wicker basket that would of been used for decoration or carrying flowers in, and even that still drowned her. We also had no clothing or nappies(diapers) that were small enough to fit so we had to wrap her in a cardigan but thankfully the hospital had a mini hat that fitted her.
I know so many families that haven’t been as lucky as we were and had their children given to them in things such as a shoe box, or some even had their baby ‘disposed’ before getting a chance or choice to meet them. This hurts me so much, no one should ever go through that. It’s the most awful and heart wrenching thing to have to lose a child, and it hurts more when you and your child are not treated with the respect you both deserve.
So, myself and my mother in law are creating miniature cribs and clothing to be able to donate to hospitals and help families as best as we can that are going through, are due to go through or have been through this awful ordeal. We want the babies that are born prematurely to be treated like they are still babies, because we find that a lot of the time they’re not and that’s not right. We want families to have the best experience that is even possible during that time, to have the chance of dressing your child and putting them in their cribs in hopes that this is able to help the grieving process.
As you can see in the pictures, these are some of the items that have been made already. Three mini cribs, that will be available in different colours. Mini outfits, hats and booties and also we are in the process of creating some mini teddy bears that will be perfect sizes for the little babies too.
BUT, the base of the cribs are made with the above ice cream tubs and we are currently funding everything ourselves. Wool, embellishments, stuffing, ice cream tubs, patterns etc. all we are hoping to ask for is that you would be kind enough to share these posts around to any networking platforms available and spread the word. Anyone that is able to save us these tubs would be amazing.
The ice cream tubs that we need are by Carte D’or, or any similar oval tubs. If you are able to save them, I am able to pay shipping costs in order to receive them. It would really mean so very much if you were able to help us at all. So, thank you in advance.
*please reblog and share this post as much as possible to spread the word to those able to help and those in need of the help*
when you say something funny and your friends laugh
This makes me so sad.
My mum completely respects my decision. I haven’t decided if I want her there yet but she completely respects whatever I choose.
I hear things like this a lot, whether it’s your own mum or your mil just trying to take over.
You are the one in labour and it’s special for you. People should respect whatever you choose. You shouldn’t have to lie or hide that you’re in labour. People should just listen to what you want.
Send me some and I’ll agree or disagree c: